How to have SMALL TALK with anyone

  How to have fulfilling conversations that flows and feels good from the inside out.   BOOK ENERGY COACHING WITH ME: https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu   0:00 Introduction 0:42 Icebreakers 1:49 Flowing into Conversations 4:11 Balance in Conversations 5:42 Keeping Conversations Going 10:09 More Resources   TIPS: Balance Confidence + Comfort as your base (breathe to realign) Tune into the current environment for ice breakers (be present and use your senses) Compliment/be curious about physical attributes, energy, presence Ping-pong things about them back to relevant stories about you Take initiative to guide conversations to stay in a ‘ping-pong’ balance Allow silences, relax into your confident/comfortable base No similarities? Relate to similar emotions in experiences Ask things you’ve been conscious/curious about yourself recently Stay regulated in confidence/comfort/curiousity to ask/say whatever you’d like   MORE: Get 1:1 Coaching - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Workplace Boundaries Scripts - https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Access Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Sign up for my Emails - https://beacons.ai/niu.views/email Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries/Partnerships/Media - [email protected]   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu @niu.views. I am a creator and coach on self and social dynamics. I help people with their self identity and social confidence in a way that feels good, intentional, and sustainable inside and out. I share views and guidance on how we influence each other through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. I love creating content on human interactions, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #selfconfidence #charisma #socialskills #conversationalskills #communicationtips #emotionalintelligence #socialskills #psychology #communicationskills #podcasts #smalltalk #confidence #peoplepleaser #selfmastery #buildingrapport #socialanxiety #niuviews