306. Feminist Marriage Brain Part 1 — Engagement Expectations

We're socialized to believe that the way other people act is about us. Women are socialized to want big romantic gestures from men, which they then equate to how much the man loves them, which equates to how valuable they are as a woman. Newsflash: Other people’s behavior is not actually about you.Tune in this week to find out why our expectations of how we want other people to behave (in all sorts of contexts) are influenced by our behavior, how engagements and the expectations that go along with them are a microcosm of where we’re at in society today, and why elaborate engagements make less sense in today’s society than they did in the past.Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/306Mentioned in this episode:🎉 My Birthday Flash Sale Is Coming — Get On the List!Every year on my birthday, I give YOU a present — a flash sale on your first month inside The Feminist Self-Help Society, my flagship coaching membership. The sale only runs April 24–26, so this is your official heads up. If you want in, make sure you’re on the list. 👉 Go to schoolofnewfeministthought.com/list-podcast or text your email to +1 (347) 997-1784 with the code word LIST and I’ll send you a reminder when the doors open. Don’t miss it — I only do this once a year!Bday Sale Waitlist