90: Understanding Birth Order Impacts on Relationships & Parenting with Dr. Bob Hurst

Gina (first born) and Roxanne (second born) speak with Dr. Bob Hurst about the impact our birth order and the birth orders of our children have on our lives. Dr. Hurst, an orthodontist with over 50 years of experience, shares his insights on how birth order influences individual behavior, sibling relationships, and how parents can better understand and support their children. The episode also delves into 'double birth orders' and their significance, as well as practical advice for preparing children for new siblings based on their birth order. The discussion covers tips for things to remember when introducing a new sibling to the family dynamic, and even covers birth order matches for marriage that are sure to stand the test of time!  More about Dr. Bob: Dr. Robert V.V. Hurst is a Harvard graduate and an experienced orthodontist with over 50 years in the field. Throughout his career, he has treated thousands of patients, observing firsthand how birth order and behavior patterns shape personal development and family dynamics. His extensive research challenges conventional birth order theories by introducing the concept of “Double Birth Order,” offering deeper insights into relationships and parenting. With a passion for understanding human behavior, Dr. Hurst combines his academic background with decades of practical experience to shed light on the complexities of familial roles and individual growth. He has shared his observations in his book LifesFingeprint: How Birth Order Affects Your Path Throughout Life. 00:00 Introduction to Birth Order and Personality 00:44 Meet the Hosts and Guest 01:35 Dr. Bob's Insights on Birth Order 03:14 Understanding Double Birth Orders 05:25 Sibling Dynamics and Rivalries 07:24 Birth Order in Larger Families 13:50 Blended Families and Birth Order 22:10 Practical Tips for Parents 25:48 Historical Context of Birth Order Theory 26:51 Sponsor Break: Needed Nutrition 32:31 Understanding Different Perspectives 33:02 Roles in Business and Family 34:20 The Dynamics of Twins and Multiples 37:00 Preparing Children for New Siblings 43:38 Parenting Based on Birth Order 46:35 Love and Birth Order 49:31 Complex Family Structures 53:48 Montessori and Birth Order 57:29 Final Thoughts and Resources === Get Your Copy of Training for Two on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3VOTdwH —— This podcast is sponsored by Needed, a nutrition company focused on optimal nourishment for your perinatal journey. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code MAMASTEPOD for 20% off your first order or three months of subscription.⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ****Freebies***** Early postpartum recovery course:  https://mamastefit.com/freebies/early-postpartum-recovery-guide/  Pp sample  https://mamastefit.com/freebies/postpartum-fitness-guide/ Prenatal Sample:  https://mamastefit.com/freebies/prenatal-fitness-program-guide/ Pelvic Floor  https://mamastefit.com/freebies/prepare-your-pelvic-floor-for-labor/ Birth Prep for Labor Guide  https://mamastefit.com/freebies/prepare-for-labor-guide/ Birth Partner Guide  https://mamastefit.com/freebies/birth-partner-guide/ Birth Plan  https://mamastefit.com/freebies/birth-plan-guide/