139 - Are you f*cking yourself over when going after what you want?

*** LINKS & TIMESTAMPS BELOW ***Links:An overview of my services: www.instagram.com/p/Cockq4Qt32s/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link  Link to the 50% challenge HERE: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63e2514e781752946ff2b504 Link to the Thrive First Method HERE: www/tlb.org.uk/tfmcheckout Link to work with me 1:1 HERE: https://www.tlb.org.uk/workwithmewww.instagram.com/_nikki_cross_Timestamps:When you’re going after goals that are meaningful - thing you want to be do or have, you’re likely going to bump up against challenges & adversity.Let’s talk about how that applies to your inner work.In this episode I’m sharing the three most common ways I see my own clients f*cking themselves during the journey towards goals that are meaningful to them. 8:30 not acknowledging your disempowering limiting beliefs 15:30 Not being aware of the way you’re spending your time & acknowledging your current set of life circumstances 21:10 Not developing a tolerance for uncertainty & complexityQuotes:“When you don’t acknowledge your underlying disempowering beliefs and try to pretend they don’t exist, best believe they’ll reveal themselves through your behaviour - particularly in the things you avoid”“You have to acknowledge your reality.  Really look your current truth in the eyes - acknowledging the way your life is now, your obligations, responsibilities …all of it - and THEN set goals from that place.  Otherwise you’re just setting yourself up to fail”“When you develop your tolerance for uncertainty, it enables you to let go of control.  Not because you are less ambitious or have less desire for things to work out - but because you have MORE SELF TRUST to navigate your way towards your goals THROUGH uncertainty”--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theinnerworkconversation/message This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nikkicross.substack.com