105 The Number 1 Reason Why Relationships Fail, Expert Relationship Psychotherapist Charisse Cooke

Join us on this week's episode as we explore the complexities of human emotions and relationships with our insightful guest, a seasoned psychotherapist dedicated to helping individuals navigate their inner worlds. In this enlightening conversation, we explore pressing questions like: Are people becoming disposable in 2025? How does childhood trauma shape our adult lives, and what's truly behind addiction? Our guest shares her journey into psychotherapy, revealing what inspired her to enter this transformative field and the profound lessons she's learned. We unpack the intricate connection between addiction and relationships, discussing how understanding our past can pave the way to healthier connections. Listen in as we redefine the meaning of love, emphasising the vital role of self-love and self-awareness in nurturing fulfilling relationships. This episode promises thought-provoking insights and practical wisdom for anyone looking to better understand themselves and those around them. Chapters 00:00 Episode Teaser 00:40 Intro to the guest 02:37 Are people disposable in 2025? 03.51 Who is this week's guest, and what does she do? 05:31 Why did you become a psychotherapist? 07:30 What do you learn when you’re training to be a psychotherapist? 09:53 Other problems in our life down to the trauma we experience as children? 11:39 The reason behind addiction 18:53 The transition from addiction to relationship relationships 20:05 What does love mean to you? 33:00 How important is self-love in a relationship 37:00 Look inside self-aware 39:54 What I implement into my marriage that i teach my clients 49:05 How to love your spouse the right way 52:15 Should every relationship lead to marriage? 1:00:34 Breaking down what a 'Red Flag" actually means 1:05:41 The difference between lust and love 1:10:46 Is a healthy sex life key to a successful relationship 1:12:23 The 3 attachment styles This weeks guest Charisse Cook https://charissecooke.com https://www.instagram.com/charissecooke/?hl=en Follow the Daniel Leese Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-daniel-leese-podcast/id1549263409 https://open.spotify.com/show/1N72EhY50LRpwMgpLCPUse https://www.instagram.com/thedanielleesepodcast/ Thank you to our sponsors @andsomskin you can check them out and andsomskin.com and take their free skin quiz https://andsomskin.com/pages/skincarequiz