"No one will love you until you love yourself" and other harmful things we say...

Hi there Beautiful, "No one will love you until you love yourself" and other harmful things we say like "People treat you how you allow them to treat you", or "you can't love anyone unless you love yourself" can actually cause more harm than good. We end up victim blaming the victim in these scenarios, when they were not the ones at fault. Their only crime was expecting the world to not be a hard and cruel place. Some people are too kind for this world... and that is not their fault. People will treat us how they want to treat us. Let us learn patience, kindness and empathy. Let us teach one another boundaries with grace and kindness. much love, joy and peace, Alecia 🌈RAGE EP: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://aleciarenece.bandcamp.com/album/rage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌈 Get my Book, Black Girl Creative here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.aleciarenece.com/black-girl-creative⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  🌈 Sign up for My "Love Letters" (and get free music) Here!: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://aleciarenece.me/feelgoodmusic⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ✨Get "Ease" (the song) here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://aleciarenece.bandcamp.com/track/ease⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ much love, joy and healing Alecia Get my free affirmational music: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://aleciarenece.me/feelgoodmusic⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ _____________ Keep Up With Me: Join The Patreon Family: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/AleciaRenece⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.instagram.com/aleciarenece⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/user/aleciarenece⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get My Music: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://aleciarenece.bandcamp.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________ Questions, Comments, Concerns? Got Questions You Want me to answer? Want to leave an encouraging word to Other listeners with an Email or Voice Memo? Want To Leave a Review? Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠