48. The Evolution of Coaching and Integral Leadership with Jen Szpigiel

Welcome Back Coachable Fam! This week we are joined with Jen Szpiegiel. Jen is the founder and CEO of Becoming Iconic, a 7 figure global business & leadership brand that elevates entrepreneurs who desire to create a 7 figure legacy through integral leadership. [5:00] How Coaching Has Evolved “The responsibility starts to rise and it rises because you see trends and you see things come and go and you start to identify areas in the industry. It is just a side effect of social media that swings into hype. "We start to slip into moments where we don't feel gratitude, where people start to look like numbers for us versus heartbeats.” “When did we stop thinking about impact as much and put income in its place?” [12:00] Your Why “I am committed to being a mission driven messenger and working with mission driven messengers, because if you don't have a deeper why” “Our job is to take people along our journey and to show our progression.It's not about this perfection.” “Faith it till you make it not fake it till you make it”  “It comes down to this realization that we were worthy upon arrival. Worth is not earned.It was our God-given birthright.” [20:00] Becoming Iconic “It's this whole story of becoming iconic could be an iconic stay-at-home mom or an iconic entrepreneur and iconic corporate career, iconic relationships, and what to me defines iconic is the person who is willing to pursue a better version every single day.” “It's the pursuit of seeing all of ourselves and being all of ourselves.” “It's peaceful confidence and peaceful confidence to me is the ultimate for a woman.” “She's the woman who walks in a room and does not need to be loud and boisterous and declare her space.It is simply from the inside out.” [30:00] Leadership  “These are my five pillars. The first is embodiment, the pursuit of your truth, your integrity, I believe the second one is relationships, the third being wellness. “The 4th being your business or what it is you do out in the world and the fifth thing being spirituality.” “Every single day, I'm going to intentionally do something to grow them, to foster them, to nourish them, to flourish them.” [40:00] Imposter Syndrome  “I actually welcome things like that, because that tells me I've stretched into something and I am Uber uncomfortable. I am in territory that I've never been in before. So I better shape up and figure out the skills and learn the lessons.” “I stand a little straighter. People feel imposter and what do they do? They shrink. I would challenge anybody listening. If you're feeling imposter syndrome, walk towards it, that means you're doing something new.” [47:00] Student For Life “My hindsight becomes my foresight” “Tear the pede Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Connect with Tori on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachtorigordon/ Guess what?! WE'RE ON YOUTUBE! https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon If you love the show and want to show your support, please leave us a 5 star rating and review of the podcast on Apple Podcasts and Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices