SGSG #11 How to become your own dream girl + decentering men

Welcome to the Spoiled Girlie Support Group podcast! In this episode, Elle shares some valuable insights and strategies for women who want to become their own dream girl and center their own desires. Elle starts by discussing the Dream Girl theory and how it can be applied in everyday life. Listen in as she talks about the value-investment curve and how to know when you are his dream girl. The conversation then shifts towards developing your own dream girl. Elle offers some practical tips on how to change your reality to change your mindset. She emphasizes the importance of treating yourself with love and doing things that someone who loves her would do. Curating your circles is also a crucial aspect of becoming your own dream girl. Elle shares some powerful insights on why you need to surround yourself with people who uplift you and how to drop the pickme girlfriends, the scarcity mindset girlfriends, and the negative girlfriends. Elle also introduces the concept of having a delulu day, where you embody the woman you want to be and schedule activities that are normal for your dream girl. This helps you slowly morph into your own dream girl and make your dream life a reality. Establishing boundaries is also key to creating your own dream girl. Listen in as Elle shares some powerful insights on why you need to be stronger with your boundaries and surround yourself only with the people who are embodying their dream selves. Toxic self-improvement is another important topic of discussion. Elle talks about the self-improvement fatigue and how to recognize when you're doing too much and it's actually starting to harm you. She also emphasizes the importance of always being in discernment. Finally, Elle reminds listeners that life has seasons and sometimes you're in a changing season, sometimes you're in a flowering season, and sometimes you're in a hibernating season. It's important to give yourself grace and remember that you're doing all of this for YOU. So tune in now and get ready to become your own dream woman. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content like this! Join the Inner Circle (High Value Dating Protocol + Group Coaching) - https://www.manifestelle.com/join-the-inner-circle Shop the Bestie Tee - https://www.manifestelle.com/store/p/bestie-tee Chapters: 1:09 what is a dream girl? 03:49 the value-investment curve 04:55 how do you know you are his dream girl? 06:09 what happens when you are his dream girl 06:26 the dream girl theory and business 07:24 decenter men = center yourself 08:15 how to become your own dream girl 08:27 step 1 - change the reality to change the mindset 10:18 step 2 - curate your circles 12:36 step 3 - have a delulu day 13:34 step 4 - establish boundaries 18:41 toxic self-improvement?