love good men to attract good men - self-concept + detachment

Buy merch to support our channel - https://shopisla.co ✨All other links - https://beacons.ai/manifestelle In today’s episode, the focus is on the concept of learning to love good men to attract positive romantic relationships. Elle acknowledges her internal conflict about discussing men in her content, as she aims to create a space centered on women's issues. However, she recognizes the relevance of romantic relationships with men in women's lives. Elle shares her observations about the prevalence of content geared towards men's personal development, such as the manosphere, which often revolves around discussions about women. She finds it intriguing that men are so focused on women in their content. However, she cautions against hyperfocusing on the negativity of men, as it can lead to becoming hateful individuals. She emphasizes that what one believes is often perpetuated in reality. By developing a self-concept that aligns with positive narratives, individuals can increase their chances of attaining their goals. Elle encourages individuals to embrace the concept of being a good woman who loves the concept of a man. Elle suggests consuming media that portrays men in a positive light to counterbalance the overconsumption of negative content. She acknowledges the importance of raising awareness about the ways in which men hurt women but also highlights the need for healthy portrayals of masculinity. To attract good men, Elle advises removing any bad men from one's life and surrounding oneself with people who have good intentions. By being detached early on and choosing who to engage with, individuals can find compatible and positive relationships. She emphasizes the benefit of believing that men are generally good, as it allows individuals to bring out the best version of themselves in relationships. Seeking partners who share the same belief in one's self-concept increases the chances of finding positive relationships. Elle acknowledges that a dream life involving a romantic partner is valid and should not be diminished. Each individual is entitled to shape their life experiences according to their own desires and preferences. In conclusion, Elle encourages listeners to learn to love good men to attract them into their lives. She emphasizes the importance of holding onto positive memories and experiences with men, while acknowledging the ways in which men have hurt women. The episode concludes with an empowering message from Elle, urging listeners to go after their goals and aspirations.