I’m still me: style, sex appeal and identity.

You feel like the same person you were in your twenties and thirties, so why does society portray menopausal women as the grey-haired, cardie brigade? Lorraine and Trish talk to Britpop star Louise Wener about reforming her band, Sleeper, in her fifties, how style and sex appeal evolve and why you’re never too old to wear leopard print. Plus, how to cope when teens discover booze and partying; the Sunday night conflict zone; and sorting your gut health. If you’d like to join the conversation, please send us your story via postcard to:  Postcards from Midlife The Sunday Times Style 1 London Bridge Street London,SE1 9GF Or find us on at postcardsfrommidlife.co.uk TWITTER @SundayTimesLC | @TrishHalpin And INSTAGRAM @SundayTimesLorraine | @TrishoftheDay For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy