58 - SEX - We’re having sex, not going to the circus - so why are we out here performing? Ft. Dr Massimo Fontana

Our sex episodes are back. Join Louise & OPENHOUSE sex therapist, psychologist, & intimacy coach, Massimo Fontana, as the pair discuss:⇢Making love in the dark; ⇢The balance between receivership and service in the bedroom; ⇢The impact of pornography and ‘fake it till you make it’ culture on our sex lives today⇢The fragile ego + why we take things personally if our partner doesn’t orgasm⇢Why we’re not creating space to explore our sexual self⇢How to communicate what you like and what you don’t like in the bedroom⇢How to build a space of intimacy where it doesn’t matter whether you orgasm or not ⇢The importance of being in your body rather than cerebrally being in your head ⇢And the importance of aftercare, safety and non-violent sexual play Massimo and Louise also chat breath play, blindfold play, creating sex tapes, the Master’s and Johnson Orgasm curve & crying in the shower after sex + the HEARTSPACE trick to bring you and your partner closer together.  Connect with Louise on social: @iamlouiserumballConnect with OPENHOUSE: @theopenhousepodcastConnect with Massimo Fontana: @massimo.stocchi.fontana Join the mailing list or submit a question to the OPENHOUSE Therapist Hotline through the OPENHOUSE website: www.thisisopenhouse.com⠀ Interested in reaching your truest sexual self image and healing yourself through your sexuality? Book your exploration consultation with Massimo HERE and quote OPENHOUSE. ⠀ ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––  ⠀ Music SourcesVibe With Me by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarudMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-7YDBIGCXsY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices