EP90 Fearless Femme: 3-Step Holiday Prep

No matter how long you have been on your fertility journey, the holidays can feel like an emotional minefield. Learn 3 smart-AF steps for making this holiday season your best EVER, no matter what you’ve been through. Transcript: Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 90. Three step holiday prep. Hey loves, I am super excited to be with you this week because we are taking on a topic that I bet has been lurking in the back of your mind probably since last holiday season. If you're anything like me, I bet there was a point when you just said, yeah, no. No, no, no business as usual on the holidays is not going to happen. And there's never a better time to be thinking about that than when you are on your fertility journey. And, and that's simply for this reason, because it can feel like an absolute emotional minefield. And that's not just because the people around you are undoubtedly going to be asking questions and all of that good stuff or sometimes there's even that barely detectable weirdness that you know is there. Everyone else knows is there, but nobody wants to talk about it. Kind of freaky shit that goes on. But as women. Who live this journey consciously who are lovably type a control freaky and want to do something about their life other than just bitch complain and be a victim. We have to take the bull by the horns and the holidays are no different. Just like I preach to you mamas in the making about getting in front of your journey, taking control of your thoughts and beliefs, making your mind work for you. We've got to do the same thing when it comes to. Events in our lives that can sometimes be a challenging and frankly, an invitation for us to get to the next level of the way that we think and believe on this journey. And I honestly believe that when we face challenges on this journey, it is indeed an invitation to step up, level up and get out of our rut. Kind of rhymed and is a little bit annoying, but anyway, you get the point. So what I'm going to be proposing to you in this episode is a three step process for really making this holiday season different. And here's why think about it, mama. This may be the very last holiday season you have before your baby gets here. So, this isn't just about surviving the holidays, you know, like that super low vibe bullshit that you might hear people trying to sling in your direction just because you're on this journey, but this is truly a celebration. Of your journey and frankly, where you are on it, because your life, whether you realize it or not, can be very different 12 months from now. Like when I think about the way that we live the holidays before Asher came, they were already a reflection of who we meaning my husband and I really chose to be. We really wanted to live big and and live lives on purpose. And that's why you hear me say, like, the more we came alive in our lives, the quicker Asher got here. So the reason for taking the time to think strategically about your holiday season is twofold. One,