EP83 The Smartest Thing To Focus On

If you don’t know which direction to go next on this journey or like at any given moment you are juggling knives, let me teach you where smart women put their focus. When you bring yourself back to “this” focal point, fear, freakout, and agonizing over statistics and probabilities falls away.  With “this” as your focus, you are unstoppable. Transcript: Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 83. The smartest thing you can focus on. Two, three, what? Good morning, Asher. Good morning, Asher. What's on your, what's your plan for the day? I'm going to go to school, try this out. What are you trying out? Oh, that's a microphone. That's a microphone. You want to say hi to the ladies? Hey, ladies. You want to sing Old Macdonald? Old Macdonald had a farm, E I E I O Had a farm and had a pig. Old Macdonald had a cow, Old Macdonald had a horse. E I E I O. What about Baa Baa Black Sheep? Baa Baa Black Sheep, I'm in the world. It's so, yes, so beautiful. One for the next and one for the past year. One for The music just stopped. Baa Baa Black Sheep, I'm It's so, yes, so beautiful. One for the next and one for the game. Baa Baa Black Sheep, I'm in the world. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Be it is. Are you excited about Halloween? Yeah. What do you want to be for Halloween? I'm going to be a firetruck for Halloween. Oh, you're going to go trick or treating? Yeah, I'm going to go trick or treating with me. Yeah, of course I want to go trick or treating with you. What's that? That's a microphone. You like it? Hey, hold on. Yeah, yeah, I like it. Okay, cool. Well, go finish your breakfast, baby. I love you. Love you. Have a good day. Have a good day. Okay, go down and eat your breakfast. Hey mama, I am so glad you are here and I brought my special guest on to this week's episode Asher Douglas because I have a single objective for our time together this week I want to help drag your ass back to reality We get so wrapped up in shit that really doesn't matter on this journey Like what other people think how many times we failed or what the quote unquote statistics say and you know What what's real is that you? As a woman, right now, listening to this podcast, you can't fucking wait to have your own moments like that with your child. Singing crazy, twisted songs about old McDonald's farm and whether or not you have any wool, okay? Like, that's the shit that actually matters on this journey. And you know what? Sometimes we need a reality check to snap us back to what is, in fact, real. You are a woman. With a desire in her heart to be a mom. And that desire is there because it was meant for you. Anything else is a distraction. It's bullshit. It doesn't matter how many times you failed. It doesn't matter what other people say or what other people think. And if you have any doubt about how much that stuff doesn't matter, just re listen to every podcast episode with one of my ladies in it. They beat crazy odds. That's how much all of that distraction bullshit doesn't matter. And let's be honest, ladies. Every single day on this journey,