EP78 Thank GUS For No: The Divine Delay

As lovably Type A, perfectionists on this journey, there are few things we hate more than “Nos” and delays. But what if there was a way for you to see the “Nos” as a good thing? Eeek! Not only is this possible, it’s a powerful move that will keep you on track toward your very own Mama-Making success story. Let me teach you how. Transcript: Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the fearlessly fertile podcast episode 78. Thank Gus for no, the divine delay. Hey loves, because I understand you so well, I'm going to hit you with a two letter word that you probably hate more than any other. No. When it comes to getting what you want, getting things you are working so hard for, there are few things worse than getting a no. On this journey, no comes in the context of a negative pregnancy test, Canceled treatment cycles, test results that indicate another surgery is needed, friends or family that don't support your next moves, miscarriage, swapping out members of your bump squad, switching gears from one option to the next, you name it. All of these things carry varying levels of frustration, heartbreak, or exasperation for show. And I am challenging you this week to see them as more than that. To halt your consideration of the no's you get on this journey at just the negative implications is settling for the low hanging fruit. Anyone with a pulse can do that. That takes virtually zero effort. It's just allowing the negative bias of your reptilian brain to run the show. It's like settling for what just comes stock on your new car, instead of saying hell yes to some massive upgrades that take your shit from average to awesome. When it comes to living your fertility journey with your mind working for you, not against you, I respectfully submit that if you are committed to success, Your default has got to be awesome. To help you with that. Let's chat about what I like to think of as the divine delay, the double D for short, plain and simple. The divine delay, at least how I see it is Gus, God, universe source, stepping in and saying, Hey, doll, we're going to pump the brakes for just a second. I've got something for you to work on. I'm looking out for you. Trust me. I understand that there will be some of you that will hear that and just want to throw your device across the fucking room. I get it. It's totally fucking frustrating. And whether you believe me or not, it's true. After coaching, teaching, and sharing my work with women around the world, I see this proving itself out daily. Daily. And while we think we are doing everything right, Anyone who actually thinks strategically would be willing to take a step back and ask, is there something I might not be seeing? Is there a lesson I am missing right now? Because my ego is in the way. It takes some emotional maturity and willingness to relinquish the victim mentality to ask that question. But no matter how you cut it, if you want to be successful on this journey, you've got to be willing to ask it so you don't keep repeating a losing pattern. The divine delay is a blessing.