EP66 Self Sabotage: Spot It. STOP It

No matter how goal oriented and well intentioned we are, EVERYONE engages in self sabotage of one form or another. Sometimes it is blatant, but more often than not, it is super sneaky and subtle. It may not look like a big deal at first, but cumulatively it can create a huge gap between where you are today on your journey…and where you actually want to be. Learn how to spot the sabotage AND stop it! Transcript: Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, bad assery, and loads of hell. Yes. For your fertility journey, it's time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 66. Self sabotage. Spot it. Stop it. Hey loves. Between our series on faith and the interview we did with Miracle Mama Myrna, I hope you are flying high with excitement and possibility for your journey. If you haven't heard me say this recently, let's be clear about one thing. The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. Gus put it there. Not sure about that? Be sure to listen to episodes 62, 63, and 64, our series on faith. They will tune you right up. This week, I want to get super practical with you. Because while all of this inspiring shit is amazing, I know there's a part of you that is wondering, but Roseanne, how the fuck do I get there? The answer to that question has a lot of layers and moving parts that are different for everyone. There is no one size fits all, bite size candy bar solution. Every one of us has to roll up our sleeves and do the work. Just think about all the women you've heard on this podcast. Not a single one of them was lying around on her couch waiting for someone to clean up the mess in her mind for her. She took responsibility, got her ass lovingly kicked by me, and she created new, more amazing results. This is why my Fearlessly Fertile method program is structured the way it is, and it has staying power because we take a multi pronged approach. This isn't just feel good bullshit. It's about creating foundational structures that you will use for a lifetime. It is about supporting your success on this journey, indeed, and it's going to impact your entire life as a mom. I teach tried and true principles backed by evidence and coach you through them so that they can be tailored to your unique set of circumstances. Learning how to apply these lessons in your life is key, my darling. One critical, game changing skill every woman who intends to succeed on this journey must develop is the ability to spot her own self sabotage. Everyone engages in self sabotage of some kind or other. Everyone. Why the fuck do you think top performers in just about every industry has a coach? Steve Jobs had a coach. Oprah has coaches. Anyone with any aspiration for success has a fucking coach. Why? Because they aren't willing to roll the dice with their dreams. They understand they are their own worst enemy. And their coach is part of their insurance policy against that self sabotage. What's hilarious is the people who don't think they need a coach are usually the ones who need it the most. But as any smart coach will tell you, the best coaches, we go where we are wanted, not where we are needed.