EP64 Fertility & Faith: Exhaling Into Belief

In this third episode of this 3-part series on fertility and faith, I am going to share some of the ways that I learned to cultivate unwavering faith—even in the face of nightmarish heartbreak. If there is any part of you that wants to believe, you can’t miss this. Transcript: Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes, for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 64. Fertility and faith, exhaling into belief. Hey loves, in this third episode of a three episode series on faith, we are going to turn our attention to what it really takes to cultivate unwavering faith and the holy grail of belief on this journey. I want to start by acknowledging something that is undoubtedly lurking as a saboteur in the back of your mind as you take in this series on faith. You might be thinking to yourself, all this faith shit is easy for you, Roseanne, to sling because your baby came. Now, my loves, if any part of you is thinking that, I get it. And let me address that right now in no uncertain terms. My faith preceded my son's appearance on this earth. Faith preceded the miracle, my love, not the other way around. Faith preceded the blessing. This wasn't some weird quid pro quo that suddenly I got some faith after my baby came. Not at all. I get that this is a scary proposition, particularly when we live in a world that is predominantly based in, I'll believe it when I see it, mentality. Most of us are conditioned to trust. Only in what we can see, touch, taste, smell, and hear with our physical senses. But the truth is, our senses barely scratch the surface, and they are unquestionably influenced by our biases, many of which are incredibly negative and fear based. I am pointing this fact out so that you can begin to open your heart and realize that the quote unquote truth may be quite different than the evidence you can see would have you believe. It's quite freeing, actually, and kind of fucking exciting. Can you even imagine? Leaning back right now and saying to yourself, I could be entirely wrong about all this negative shit! I could be wrong! Even better, when you realize that something higher is in your corner, you can finally get that you don't have to have your journey all figured out. You don't! Now, if you're choking on any of this shit, go back to the exercise I invited you to do in episode 63, your list of 25 holy shit blessings. Somewhere on that list, you will see some things that you can remember thinking, man, I have no clue exactly how this is going to happen for me. And away was shown. If you made that list, you have evidence in your pretty little hand. that will give you every reason to have faith. If you're stuck thinking, yeah, that happened for me then, but Raziel, this is different, or whatever distractions your saboteurs want to throw your way, recognize it as that, a distraction, because that's what the negative shit is. Distraction from the whole picture. Because what you have in your hand, if you made that list, is proof that something is working on your behalf. The people rest your honor. There is a huge part of you right now, my darling,