EP4: Fertility success faster? Try this counterintuitive move.

What if one simple, powerful, yet counterintuitive move could bring you closer to fertility success faster? It’s the exact opposite of every impulse you have in your body right now AND it could make all the difference in the world. Transcript: Hey gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the. Odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, bad assery, and loads of hell Yes. For your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode four. Want fertility success faster? Try this counterintuitive move. My darling woman, conventional wisdom would have you believe that if you want faster results, you have to move and do things faster. But, as you might have come to realize, conventional wisdom doesn't always apply to baby making. Mother Nature and the divine are not confined by our rules and defy them on the regular. Today, I'm going to challenge you to consider something that may feel very unconventional and downright, you guessed it, counterintuitive. I am inviting you to slow the fuck down and rest for a minute. This notion is even more important if you are amidst a treatment cycle or planning for one. Let me be clear. This isn't the same thing as the just relax bullshit that people who have never spent a day on this journey love to spew. Telling a woman to just relax is some disingenuous nonsense. Being a mom is part of your life purpose, why the fuck would you ever want to relax or take some half assed approach to your desire for that? Seriously. That being said, what I am inviting you to do is simply slow down and get your bearings. I totally understand that with the near constant fear mongering about time and a fertility culture rife with notions of lack and scarcity, Your immediate response to this proposition may be, Rozanne, what the hell are you talking about? I can't slow down, are you crazy? The clock is ticking! And to that, babe, I hear you. I lived far too many years on my own fertility journey under the proverbial gun. Leapfrogging from one treatment to the next, and one diet, supplement, or miracle cure to the next. At a breakneck pace. I was so exhausted, depleted, and heartbroken over working so hard and still quote unquote failing that at times I wondered if I should just give up. I bet you can relate. This, woman, is what happens if we don't take a minute to slow the fuck down. Now, let's make things crystal clear. I am all about a woman putting her stiletto heeled foot on the gas when it comes to her baby. But, you have to point your shit in the right direction, or you will crash. This is why taking a minute to slow down is so smart. I'm not talking about an idiotic, indefinite hiatus. Maybe a month, maybe a week, or even a weekend. The greatest thing about this is you decide. You were born with millions of eggs. They will still be there and taking some time to breathe can only be to your benefit. It's not like your body, mother nature, or the divine are particularly worried about our calendar, our arbitrary timelines, or our negatively skewed notions about age. Do you really think it will make a difference if you wait a weekend, a week, or a month to do your next treatment or actively try again?