EP3: Freaked out by past “failures?” Do this instead

Learn about a game-changing mindset shift that can change the way you see “failure” forever.  Discover a powerfully positive clutch move for using disappointment to your strategic advantage. Transcript: Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 3. Freaked out by failures? Do this instead. Love, I have got to tell you that I am absolutely giddy with delight right now. The reason is my ladies. They are on fire. Nine pregnancy announcements in the past seven weeks. Woo! I am sharing this with you because it's awesome as fuck and there's something in it for you. Let's up level your attitude about failure, not from a bullshit, goody two shoes perspective, but from the steely eyed perspective of a woman on a mission. You know what you want. You aren't leaving without your baby. To that end, my darling, I'm going to share a simple yet powerful mindset shift that came up during my best year ever workshop earlier this year. And it's a principle my ladies live by. Okay? Get something to write with, get your journal out, whatever it takes, because you're going to want to write this down. And it's simple yet profound and is an absolute game changer for your fertility journey. And it's this. In the pursuit of that which you desire, expect more no's than yes's. Put it another way, expect more failures than victories. And look, expecting failure or expecting to hear no's, that's actually not negative. If approached wisely, it's actually an affirmation of your power. And here's what I mean when I say approach it wisely. When you expect failure or when you expect to hear no's from a place of commitment to your success or commitment to hearing yes. The no's and failures along the way have zero power over you. They're simply part of the equation, that's all. Looking at it from another way, it's almost like failing or hearing no, it's just the price of doing business when you're on the road to making your dreams a reality. Instead of letting failure or the occasional no crush you, cause you to doubt everything you stand for, or make you wear a dunce cap for the rest of your life, embrace that bitch! Treat failure like an old friend, because when you do, you empower yourself to keep taking the shot. Literally, if you're doing IVF, or figuratively, and understand that when you miss, or when you mess up, or when you have failure, it's merely an invitation to course correct. It's nothing personal. It's nothing shameful. And here's what you've got to understand. And look, it's one of the biggest mindset shifts that you will ever make. It literally runs counter to most everything that we are taught and the way that we're typically conditioned. And it's just this. Each no brings you one step closer to yes. Each failure brings you one step closer to victory. And this is so important because most of us, we just replay our failures, our shortcomings, and all of the crap that we go through on this journey. We just keep playing it over and over and over again. And we make past mistakes, past failures, past disappointments,