EP26: Why Fear and Desperation Will Block Your Baby

Fear and desperation doesn’t just make you feel terrible—they can actually form a very real block to what you desire. In this episode, you will learn a 4-word principle, that when fully embraced, can shake you out of fearful desperation on this journey for good. Transcript: Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby. Fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 26. Why fear and desperation will block your baby. Hey gorgeous one, it is so good to be with you this week. I have an idea that I want to share, which, when it was introduced to me, was revolutionary. And I'm sure you've heard claims like that before, but if you actually play with the idea that I am going to share with you and truly take it to heart, It will be revolutionary. In fact, it might be so revolutionary that your mind is blown for a few minutes. You may even reject it at first, which is fine. But when you really get this into your bones, it's freedom, baby. You will also see why it is a much more intelligent and productive approach that will help set you up for success on this journey. It is simply this. The prize never chases. The prize never chases. When one of my mentors said that to me, it rocked my world. When it comes to this journey, I invite you to consider that you Are the prize. You, my darling, are the prize. You don't have to chase shit. Most of us get caught up in the notion that our baby is the prize, the goal, the quote unquote thing. When you really break that down, it's kind of fucked up. It's making another human being an object, which is gross. It's repulsive. Would you ever want someone to think of you as an object? An object that once they have will make all of their problems go away? Yikes! Think back to your dating days. Do you remember having someone chase you with such desperation and fear that you caught yourself saying, EWWWWW? They didn't come at you as someone who truly had something to offer, someone who could be a real partner to you. They didn't come across with confidence and peace. It didn't matter how nice they were, instinctively you picked up that they were weak and needy and ran in the opposite direction. You might have even pitied them for a minute. But you knew in your soul they were not the one for you. You might have even observed red flags like attempts to make you feel bad or manipulate you. Any way you size it up, it would have been a mistake. Now, contrast that with someone who is confident, someone who knows they have something to offer. Notice how confident, happy, high vibe people are the most attractive, even if they are not attractive in a classic sense, which in reality is boring nonsense anyway. But you get what I'm saying. Think about how irresistible people who are confident are. You hear people say, there was just something about them. You're damn right there is something about them that make you feel safe and welcome. It's delicious. If you stop and think about the energy you put out when you are chasing, you will see how it projects a sense of, Fix me. Make this lack and scarcity feeling go away. Make me whole.