EP17: The Power of Hell Yes

Could you be blocking your success with indecision and wishy-washiness? Learn what that looks like and how standing in your truth, the real truth, can catapult you toward success on your fertility journey—faster and smarter than you think. Transcript: Hey Gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the. Odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, bad assery, and loads of hell Yes. For your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 17. The Power of Hell. Yes. Hello, my precious ones. I'm delighted to be with you again this week. I wanna share an idea with you. In this episode, that really proved to be a game changer in my life and on my fertility journey. It's the power of hell yes! How often do you find yourself just kind of ho humming through decision making? Or even worse, saying yes when you mean hell no, or saying a pip squeaky self effacing, things can't get that good for me no, when you really mean, hell yes, hook a sister up, please. If that is what you find yourself doing, I'm here to invite you to consider doing things differently, because Life is too short for that bullshit, and it will block you from having what you really, really want. It's either hell yes, or hell no. Hell maybe is for suckers. It's for people who have not made the decision they are all in. If you want success on this journey, you can't afford to mess around with wishy washy indecision. There's frankly no excuse for it. You know in your heart EXACTLY what you want, my loves. The only reason you would fuck around with Hell Maybe is because you are scared. YOU know your truth. Put ya back down, then start spinning. When we look back on all of our Hell Maybes, and we've all said them, and the angst that they leave in our wake, it would have been so much easier to just say, HELL YES! Or, hell no, deal with the consequences and move the fuck on. I want to inspire you this week to quit doing that shit. Have the guts to stand in your hell yes. Or, hell no. If something's not a hell yes for you, it's a hell no. Simplify your life and your journey. Why expend resources like time, money, and energy on shit that's just sort of meh for you? You gotta look at what is causing you to hold back in this area. You deserve to be a powerful decision maker. Is it obligation? What other people think? Not knowing the next step or fooling yourself into thinking you need to think a little more about it. None of those excuses are you in your power, my love. Wishy washiness and hell maybes are not going to work. You've got to stand up straight, my darlings. Know your mind and cultivate the belief in yourself to expect that you will speak your truth. You've got to demand this of yourself. So often we back down from our truth because we don't want to hurt or inconvenience other people. While that intention is great, the real truth is your inauthenticity hurts both of you, it's miserable for you, and undoubtedly will end up creating friction in the relationship you have with the person you think you are sparing. You'll end up resenting them and being pissed off at yourself for continuing to hide. Telling yourself you need more time to think is just a stall tactic. My darlings,