544 AITA for not going to Xmas if I can't wear my hat?

TIMESTAMPS BELOWBut first... merry xmas and a happy holz to you and yours!Shouts to dear listener, Aya, and Chelsea, listener and Shan-sister, for meeting up with me on my Tokyo trip and giving me amazing tours! Also bonus shout out to Justine who linked me with her friend Kenta San who I met as well! Love all y'all!(0:00) - Danny gets a 'massage' in Japan(15:10) - Shannon's issue on Maui(21:55) - AITA for uninviting my oldest daughter to Xmas over Santa?(32:26) - WIBTA if I asked fiance to return his gift?(41:45) - AITA for saying I won't go to Xmas if I can't wear my hat?Free stickers at: https://aitapod.comSubmit to our Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Join us on Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 180+ Bonus eps- Discord with awesome communityTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapodInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/